《每日原则》:  自己要通情达理，也期待别人通情达理。

在提倡你的观点时，你有责任做到通情达理和体谅别人，千万不要被“较低层次的自己”控制了情绪，即便对方在发脾气。 对方行为举止不好，不意味着你的行为举止也要变差。

如果分歧各方太过于情绪化而丧失了逻辑，对话应该暂时中止。有时，在不必要马上做出决策的情况下，推迟几个小时或几天再讨论是最好的主意。

You have a responsibility to be reasonable and considerate when you are advocating for your point of view and should never let your “lower-level you” gain control, even if the other person loses his or her temper. Their bad behavior doesn’t justify yours.

If either party to a disagreement is too emotional to be logical, the conversation should be deferred. Pausing a few hours or even a few days in cases where decisions do not have to be made immediately is sometimes the best approach.

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