生活的残忍不在于它的蛮横霸道,而是它总会来挑战你那些旧有的理解。它会告诉你:你又想错了。
插画师Alex Noriega在工作受挫后感到迷茫不安,就用图文记录了一些生活感悟。他的博客叫做“那些没人告诉我的事”(Stuff No One Told Me),他一直更新着自己的博客,而他的人生感悟也让无数人受益匪浅。
网友们都爱极了这些颇有哲理的画,希望你也能从这些插画中获得温暖和力量。
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Don't push your friends into your stuff...Let them find it and like it if they want to.
不要强迫你的朋友爱你所爱,除非他们心甘情愿。
No one cares about the two weeks you "lived" in America / Europe / Asia... Stop bragging about it.
不要吹嘘你只是“路过”的地方,没人在意你的那些所谓经验之谈。
Good imagination is a sign of great intelligence.
想象力对你的人生意义非凡。
Always be yourself, unless you're an arrogant bastard.
除非你是个十足的混蛋,要不然的话,最大程度地坚持做自己。
Being successful means something different to each person.
不要让别人告诉你什么是成功,不要让别人帮你下成功的定义。
Sometimes, "F**k you" is the best answer. But not always...sadly.
实在受不了了的时候,那就去他的。
It's ok to change your mind about people and things in your life... Just try to make sense.
不要局限于经验,不要害怕重新认识生活中的人和事。
Don't spread your anger all over the internet. It's stupid and every one can tell you do it because you have a small dick.
不要做网络喷子,在别人眼里你和僵尸没有区别。
Always wear nice underwear, you never know when you might get lucky or need a doctor.
内衣买好点的,你早晚会知道它的意义。
Don't complain about your life, because you don't have the car or house that you wanted... being unlucky means something else.
不要因为没车没房抱怨生活,多得是比你不幸的人。
Some of the most interesting people I know, don't know what to do with their lives.
很多在我看来非常有趣的人,常常意识不到自己的有趣。
It's good to have big hopes and expectations but keep them logical...
有野心和梦想总没错,但也要懂得脚踏实地。
Over analyzing will lead you to the wrong conclusions.
多虑容易失去很多乐趣,甚至导致错误的结论。
You can't get rid of your fears... But you can learn to live with them.
你可能无法战胜恐惧,但你可以试着和他们和平共处。
You are not as weird as you think you are... Everyone feels a little different than the rest.
你并不像你想象的那样特别,每个人都觉得自己与众不同。
There will always be prettier and uglier people than you.
这个世界上,多得是比你丑和比你美的人。
Find someone with whom you can laugh about everything and the rest will be fine.
找一个有共同笑点的人比什么都重要。
Surround yourself with things and people that inspire you.
选择那些可以给你带来正能量的人和事。
Things are just things. Don't get too attached to them.
不要花费太多感情在一些虚无的东西上,比如社交软件和游戏。
"Hello" is the most powerful word against loneliness.
当你孤独的时候,试着主动跟人打招呼。
Being normal is probably the lamest thing you can try to be.
没有什么事情比成为一个平庸的人更糟的了。
Fashion and trends are bullshit. Don't let them fool you.
时尚流行都是扯淡,不要让它们左右你的审美。
Save some time to be lazy. It's good for you.
偶尔做个“废人”没什么不好。
No brand is your friend.
不要成为名牌的奴隶。
Your family problems aren't yours.
家庭的错不是你的问题,但也不要把一切不如意都怪罪于原生家庭。
People who only call you when they need something aren't your friends.
只在需要的时候才找你的人不是真正的朋友。
Being successful means something different to each person… Respect that.
成功对每个人的意义是不同的,尊重这一点。
Women are as horny as men. They just hide their boners better.
女人和男人一样“好色”,只是她们更善于隐藏。(作者说的)
No one’s really keeping track of how many times you screw up...
不要老是纠结于过去犯的错误。
Hide nothing and you'll have nothing to hide.
不要让自己的人生空无一物。