和外国人聊三句就没话题？
谈资老套、聊不出质量？
听Jenny和Spencer分享英语聊天实用建议；
学自然、有质量的英语交流方法！
节目音乐：Have you met Miss Jones? by Robbie Williams
Run out of topics?
没话题、很尴尬？
Do you run out of things to talk about or always talk about superficial topics?
你是否聊着聊着没话题或者只能聊些很浅的内容？
英语聊天，主要靠：
How do you strike up conversations naturally with people whom you just met? 如何跟刚认识的人自然地开启话题？
＊Spencer对中文“搭讪”的理解有误＊：
Keep it natural
中国人、外国人都是人
放下压力，松弛自然地交流
Don't memorize fixed things to say to people: 不要像背稿子一样死记硬背
That's one of the reasons your conversations are very stale and limited. 那样的话，你聊的内容总是很老套、很局限
Learn a useful train of thought or flow of logic: 掌握一些实用的谈话逻辑
Jenny, Spencer先示范一下：
Assume we are at a social networking event and we don't know each other: 假设我们在一个社交场合，不认识彼此
Let's improv: 我们现场即兴演示一下
自然的英语自我介绍方法
J: Hi, I'm Jenny. Nice to meet you!
S: Hey, how's it going? My name is Spencer. Where are you from?
J: I'm from Shanghai. What about you?
S: I come from the States, come from D.C. But I bounced around a bit over the past few years, so it's kind of hard to tell where I'm really from at this point.
J: I've been to the States almost ten times. But I've never been to DC, and I've always wanted to go.
S: You should check it out sometime. We've got a lot of cool stuff there. A lot of free museums are really fun to go to.
J: But I guess it's a bit crazy this time of the year, given all the election talks.
S: It's not as crazy as you may think it is. But if that guy, Trump, gets into the office, then all bets are off.
总结：
Talk about yourself: who you're, where you're from;
但是别两句话结束, 多扩展一些.
Build on the conversation.
“What's your name?”
听起来像小学生
怎么问？
例如:
Hi, I'm Jenny, and you are?
其实对方在听了你的名字后，基本上会自然地告诉你他／她的名字。
扩展：谈场景、谈场合
Talk about the event, the immediate surroundings
Spencer's tip: I usually say something that has to do with the event.
Example: Someone just gave the speech. I might turn to somebody and say, "Hey, is it just me or did that speech make you wanna go to sleep, too?" 如果有人刚做了个演讲。我可能就会对某人说：“嘿，是只有我一个人觉得困还是刚才那个演讲让你也犯困？”
It's just a way to open up the conversation. I can just be joking. I like to start off with some sort of joke. 这就是一种开场的方式。我喜欢讲笑话。我喜欢用玩笑来开始对话。
If you don't have Spencer's sense of humor, just say: That was a great speech. 如果你没有Spencer的幽默，那么就说：那个演讲真不错！
Then the conversation naturally flows from there. 然后对话就自然发展下去啦。
如何谈工作？
除了 "What's your job?"，还有更多问法：
如果你已经知道对方工作的行业(industry specific)，可以这么问：
如果你什么都不知道，那么可以这么问：
接着这些问题，可以继续问下去：
How long have been working at this company/in this industry?
How long have you been in that line of work?
How long have you been working in (industry)?
How long have you been working in marketing?
When did you start your own company?
Have you always been in education?
Tailor your questions to what they do: 按照对方的行业进行扩展
"Where are you from?"
每个地方都有丰富的故事
Tie your conversation to the place he/she comes from.
Spencer's tip: People like to know that you're knowledgeable of where they come from. 人们喜欢你知道一些他家乡的事。
I can meet someone from practically any corner of the world. 我会遇到从世界各地来的人。
Some little tidbit or some little piece of information I can throw out at them. They will feel: Wow, you know where I'm from! 我说一点跟他们家乡有意思的小事情，他们都会觉得：哇，你知道那里！
It will lead to very interesting and meaningful exchange. 这会让对话变得有意思，而且有意义。
累积美国文化知识，绝对用得到！
即使你没去过，也有很多可以说！
What is (where they're from) like? 你的家乡是怎么样的呀？
I've always wanted to go there but I haven't had the chance. Tell me more about it. 我总想去那儿，但一直没机会。你给我讲讲吧
In return, talk about your city. 反过来，你也可以讲讲你的城市
怎么自然地结束谈话？
Wrap up a conversation gracefully
Another role play 再来演一下
S: It's been a real pleasure meeting you today. I hope to encounter you at another one of these events.
J: Likewise. Do you use WeChat?
S: That, I do. But I'm usually out of China. So when I'm out, I usually use WhatsApp. Do you have WhatsApp? I know we're a little behind with the WhatsApp. It's easier to contact me on there.
J: No, you have to get on WeChat, especially if you travel to China. It's great. In any case, I'm on LinkedIn, or we can exchange email.
S: Cool, why don't we just exchange email and maybe I'll get on that WeChat thing a bit in the future.
J: OK, sure. It's a pleasure meeting you and enjoy the rest of the evening.
S: Enjoy your stay here in Beijing.
结束谈话，用下面三个步骤：
1. 释放结束信号（Signal）
It's been really nice meeting you.
It's been a pleasure meeting you.
It's been very nice talking to you.
2. 交换联络方式 (exchange contact information)
Let's keep in touch.
Are you on WeChat?
Do you have a card?
3. 最后说 (Enjoy...)
Enjoy the rest of ________.
Enjoy the rest of the/your day.
Enjoy the rest of the/your stay.
Enjoy the rest of the/your evening.
这些实用聊天技巧，大家以后用起来吧！
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