Q&A | 回答读者的提问

看了你的微博，我讨厌你，因为你太理性，我总认为太理性的人，会渐渐的逝去爱的本能，拙见，望在提出意见，交流……

我的感性程度与我的理性程度几乎是一样的。事实上， 我为情感而活——爱、激动、灵感等等。理性不代表不感性。当然，通常情况下，理性的人情感不太丰富，情感丰富的人不太理性，因此理性的人似乎就是不感性的。但是，这其实只在于人们是否能控制他们的情感或被情感所控制。我已经养成了平衡感性和理性的习惯：当我感觉自己处于感性状态时，我会理性地审视我的情感；当我处于理性思考状态时，我会观察自己的感觉。我认为，是冥想和我的工作需要教会我养成这个习惯。冥想让人平静，让人能够平衡感性和理性。做巨大投资决策的本质则是感性的，而感性的代价非常昂贵，所以必须要学会如何去控制。

I’m as emotional as I’m logical. In fact I live for my emotions - love, excitement, inspiration, etc. Being logical doesn’t mean not being emotional. It is of course often the case that logical people are unemotional and emotional people are illogical. And it can appear that a logical person is unemotional. But that just has to do with whether people are controlling their emotions or whether people’s emotions are controlling them. I have gotten in the habit of aligning my emotions with my logic. When I feel emotions, I look at them logically and when I’m logically thinking something I ask myself how I feel about it. I think both meditation and necessity have taught me that. Meditation gives one an equanimity to be that way. The necessity of having to make bets with a lot of money on the line is emotional while being emotional can be terribly costly so one has to have that control.

对人对事持有真诚态度，敞开胸怀坦然面对一切，这样，就会有更多人走进你心里，你也必将走进更多人心里。

是的。不真诚会阻碍你探寻真相，不了解真实情况则会阻碍你做好出的决策。

Yes. Insincerity stands in the way of getting at what’s true and not knowing what’s true stands in the way of making good decisions.

这描述的不就是道法自然么？对天对地对己对万物的原则以及假设机器的原理不就是对应各自的道么？ 人类对于哲学、事物的本质，在不同的文明里都汇成了这个“一”。达利欧先生，希望您有机会能研读中国道家文化的书籍，相信您感到很多共鸣以及领悟！