让伤害你的人无趣而退

别因此难过，一个人越成功，

所遭受的委屈也会越多。

要使生命获得极致与精彩，

就不能太在意，

别让它们揪住你的心、

扰乱你的生活。

智者懂得隐忍，

原谅那些伤害你的人，

在宽容中壮大。

当你一笑置之地

去对待哪些无聊的事时，

那些兴致勃勃

伤害你的人便会无趣而退。

---加措活佛

Do not entrust all of your happinessto one person. It is possible to love someone for a lifetime, but there is noone who is willing to carry a load for a lifetime. In order to love others youmust first learn how to love yourself. How do you do that? Cherish your ownlife, respect your own principles, take care of your health, treasure yourlife, cultivate your own interests. There is no perfect person on earth; do notpush yourself too hard, and do not inflict harm on yourself.

Jia Cuo Rinpoche