这是范叔为你准备的『九言』 8.14
一定要狠下心来努力变成一个很厉害的人，厉害到有一天，你可以随时离开那些令你不舒服的圈子和人，让他们通通羡慕不已。
You must work hard to become a very powerful person, so powerful that one day you can leave those uncomfortable circles and people at any time, making them all envious.
努力是种习惯，它会贯穿终生。
Effort is a habit that will last a lifetime.
所谓教养，简单来说，就是不管你的出身和背景，你都可以选择做个更好的人。
The so-called upbringing, in simple terms, means that regardless of your background and background, you can choose to become a better person.
能改的，叫做缺点，不能改的，叫做弱点。
What can be changed is called a weakness, and what cannot be changed is called a weakness.
什么是更好的自己：连你自己都越来越喜欢自己，越来越佩服自己。What is a better self: Even you are increasingly liking yourself and admiring yourself.
不管遇到多大的困难，不管陷入多悲惨的状况，如果能够一笑，就会有重新充电的感觉。
No matter how great the difficulties are, no matter how tragic the situation is, if you can smile, you will feel like you are being recharged.
当你决定放下时，你不会失去什么，唯一会失去的，是你以前放不下的烦恼。
When you decide to let go, you won't lose anything, the only thing you will lose is the troubles you couldn't let go of before.
对自己真实，绝大部分的人生问题都会迎刃而解，没有什么比对自己真实更加自爱的事情了，所谓，一事真，百事皆真；一事假，百事皆向虚无。
To be true to oneself, the vast majority of life problems will be easily solved. There is nothing more self loving than being true to oneself. As the saying goes, if something is true, everything is true; A day off, all things turn towards nothingness.
Making friends is always for pleasure, not for saving each other's lives.
