专栏名称: 瑞达利欧RayDalio
瑞·达利欧是世界顶级投资家,企业家,桥水基金创始人,畅销书《原则》作者。《原则》分享了帮助其有效达到目标的生活和工作原则,蝉联畅销榜首位。
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每周回答

瑞达利欧RayDalio  · 公众号  ·  · 2019-07-22 12:00

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我每天都会在社交媒体上收到很多不错的问题,并选出一些进行回复。有读者告诉我,他们也想看看这些问题和回复,所以我决定把它们整理起来,用全新的“每周回答”形式与大家分享, 让更多读者受益。欢迎大家继续和我讨论这些问题以及有关《原则》等话题。



提问

您怎么看待机遇/运气?

回答

运气发挥着一定的作用,但从长远来看,随着事件数量不断变大,运气往往会被抵消。


Luck plays a role, but luck tends to cancel out over the long term with a large sample size.


提问

您说的话我几乎全部都同意。但是,我认为获得幸福比取得成功更加重要,如果一个人成功了,但不幸福,那努力工作的意义何在?

回答

如果你想要幸福的生活,并且获得了幸福的生活,这就等同于实现了成功的生活。


If you want a happy life and you get a happy life, that equals getting a successful life.


提问

您会把这条原则推荐给刚入职场的人吗?尽管会有被标签为“格格不入”的风险。

回答

当然会推荐。请不要再担心别人对你的看法,我们更需要做的是——关心如何变得快乐和成功。


Of course. Please stop worrying about what others think about you ahead of worrying about what you need to do to be happy and successful.


提问

我并不是想泼大家冷水,但是我工作过的大多数公司根本无法接受异见。相反,他们自上而下地设定方向,并将所有过于偏离方向的意见收集起来,然后打印、整合,年底考核时用来抨击持有不同意见的人。假设我们不是公司的CEO,您会建议我们如何做才能使公司有安全的环境来开展公开、坦诚的讨论?

回答

如果这家公司扼杀你的意见,我建议你换一家允许你进行双向对话将事情弄明白、让你变得更优秀的公司。你有很多选择。相比那些将你束缚在那的事物,你需要更加重视的是能让你更好思考的机会。否则你会失去思考的能力,无法充分发挥自己的潜力。


Change the organization you work at from the one that’s stifling you to one that will help you be great by allowing you to have two-way conversations about what makes sense. You have lots of choices. You need to make having the opportunity to think well a higher priority than whatever it is that is keeping you shackled there. Otherwise you will become brain dead and you won’t contribute up to your full potential.


提问

请问您如何平衡极度透明和团队团结?当极度透明威胁到公司管理结构时,该怎么处理?我很同意你的哲学方法,但是从我的经验看来,即使抱有同理心,事情的结果也是可能无法挽回的。

回答

我会向管理层解释极度透明对团队团结的贡献,以及极度求真和极度透明是如何构建信任和理解的(没有杜撰编造,事情更清晰明了)。我还会让他们看到极度透明可以让所有人自由地表达想法。也会让他们看到如果用糟糕的方式去处理意见,人们看在眼里,就会去议论,然后要么想办法去解决,要么想办法赶走那些糟糕的人。一旦人们明白到极度透明对他们有极大的帮助,并且实现极度透明的唯一障碍是他们起初的抵触情绪,而这种情绪只是一个可以纠正的坏习惯,人们就会乐意去实现极度透明。接着,我们通过良好的指导来帮助人们更好地做到极度透明。当然,不是每一个人都想要这样做。但另一方面,更多的人愿意追求极度透明,因为他们把极度透明看成是诚实,而他们不想待在一个不诚实的环境中。不管怎样,你必须选择你想要身处的文化氛围,并去实现它。对于我和我的同事来说,我们都想要更大程度的真实和透明。


I show them how radical transparency contributes to team unity. I show them how having radical truthfulness and radical transparency builds trust and understanding (because there’s no spin and because there is much greater clarity). I also show them how it allows all people to freely express themselves. I also show them how, if it’s done in a nasty way, people see that, people discuss that, and fix it (or get rid of the nasty people). Once people understand how it helps them a whole lot, and that the only big impediment that stands in the way of wanting to be this way is their initial emotional discomfort with it that’s due to a bad habit that can be changed, most people will want to do it. Then we help people do it well with good coaching. Sure, not everyone will want to do it. On the other hand, more people want it than don’t want it, because those who want it view it like honesty and don’t want to be in a dishonest environment. In any case, you have to decide on what kind of culture you want and deliver it. I and those I work with want a lot of truthfulness and transparency.


提问

大多数人都无法离开微薄而稳定的收入或跳出舒适区,因为他们没有接受足够的教育,没有获得足够的技能和训练来支撑他们去经历这个过程。

回答

事实上,大多数人(虽然不是全部)有能力在不造成无法承担的后果的情况下跳出不好的工作环境,但是他们自己并不这么认为,所以他们就像笼子里的鸟一样,其实笼门是敞开的,他们只是没有看到。我建议你读一读有关“人生几乎总是存在着一条你还没有发现的康庄大道“以及如何发现这条道路的原则。


In fact, most people (though not all) can escape their bad work situations without unacceptable consequences, though they don’t think they can, so they act like caged birds with the door open but they just don’t see it. Please read my principles about “Recognize that there is almost always an excellent path that you haven’t yet discovered” and how to discover it.


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